That time of year...

It's here it's really really here! Christmas season is upon us once again! I am one of those freaks who absolutely LOVE Christmas! From decorating, to baking, to family traditions, this time of year puts a big ol grin on this girl's face : ) Although, even with all the joy Christmas brings me there is always that little bit of stress that sneaks in. Usually it's the gift giving that stresses me out. I love giving gifts I just don't love the aftermath it leaves on my wallet. This year I decided to not let stress get in the way of any of our holiday happiness! This year is the first year I'm able to stay home with my little ones and truly enjoy the magic that Christmas brings. So I came up with a plan to defeat stress.

1. Create a Christmas binder to help keep me organized and stay on track with what needs to get done for the holidays. ( I will be posting about this in depth soon so stay tuned!) 
2. Simplify gift giving. Our family decided to do a "secret Santa" this year so we picked names and only have to buy for that one adult rather than having to get gifts for everyone. This is not including the kids they will still be just as spoiled as always : ) My friends and I are doing a cookie swap night instead of a gift swap. I think this will end up being more fun and save some money. A win win situation. As adults we try so hard to please everyone and make sure to give gifts to as many people as possible but when it comes right down to it it's not the gift that's important it's sharing your time and making memories that really matters. So that's what we are trying to do more of this year!
3. Enjoy the moment. I'm going to try to enjoy this season with my family and make the most out of it from decorating, to movies, to looking at lights, to reading our Christmas favorites, to finding Elfie (our elf on the shelf) every morning, etc. I want to enjoy this season with my kids while they are little and still believe and not get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas. 

Christmas is really a wonderful time of year if you don't let the stress creep in and  ruin it. Simplifying Christmas and appreciating it for what it's true meaning is what it's all about. We let the stress cloud our happiness too often and lose sight of what's really important. As a child we had massive Christmas's and yes I was always pleased to see that Santa came but it's really the traditions of Christmas that I remember the most. I want my children to remember Christmas not because of the presents but because we made Christmas magical for them. I encourage everyone to simplify your Christmas this year. Try to remember the importance of the holiday and not to get caught up in everything else that really doesn't matter in the end.

Thankful!

This Thanksgiving I find myself being overwhelmed with a sense of thankfulness. I've always been thankful for all the blessings in my life but this year just feels different. Maybe it's the love that surrounds me everyday from my two little boys who I adore more than they could ever imagine. Maybe it's the support, love, and friendship I share with my husband. Maybe it's because I was blessed with amazing parents and a sister I consider my best friend. Maybe it's my close friends who are like family and can make me laugh until I cry. Maybe it's because I'm fortunate enough to be able to be living out my childhood dream of being a stay at home mom. Maybe it's the miracles I witness everyday like my uncle fighting through cancer and being very sick but is still here today to make more memories. Maybe it's the healthy baby girl we are being blessed with. Maybe it's our home we live in. There are sooo many blessings in our lives and this year I can't help but feel like my heart is going to burst from joy and happiness to be living this beautiful life surrounded by the ones I love! I hope everyone has a wonderful day full of love, happiness and thankfulness! HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

My cleaning schedule.

Being a stay at home mom has its rewards and challenges. One of the challenges I ran into was getting everything I need to done in a day. After entertaining children all day, making meals, and picking up toys it seemed very difficult to keep up with my daily cleaning. When I was working I usually spent the better part of every Saturday cleaning and catching up from the week. But my house wasn't really being "lived" in when my husband and I were both working and our kids were at daycare. Now I'm home with the kids everyday and our home is really being "lived" in. This is a wonderful thing don't get me wrong, but boy oh boy does this house get a lot messier! So now the question comes up, "where do I squeeze all this extra cleaning in?" Of course I could spend my nights cleaning and tidying up but spending quality time with just my husband is a MUST for me! So after doing some trial and error I found that dividing my cleaning tasks up throughout the week instead of trying to squeeze it all into one day was a much better way of doing it. I found a customizable printout on the web that was exactly what I needed to remind me on what days I do what tasks. Here's a look at my cleaning schedule.

The printout is divided into two columns, the left is our daily to do which is where I typed in our daily routine. This includes making beds, emptying the dishwasher, sweeping, and wiping down counter tops. The right side is where I typed my weekly to do list. This includes things such as vacuuming, laundry, dusting, cleaning bathrooms, yard work etc.

The daily to do section is broken up by parts of the day. Before breakfast is when I get myself and kids ready, make beds, unload dishwasher and make breakfast. After breakfast is when we do 30 min T.V. time, circle time, free play, quick 10 min. pick up and make lunch. After Lunch is when we bring Dyl to school then have nap time for Blake, I do my daily chore while Blake is napping and Dyl is at school, we pick Dyl up from school, have snack, and free play. Before dinner is when I allow another 30 min T.V. time for the kids, my husband is usually home by now so he takes over daddy play time while I prepare dinner. After dinner consists of a 15 min family clean up, settle down time/baths, stories then bed. Yep that's pretty much how our days run.

My weekly to do list is broken down by days of the week. Each day has a different task assigned to it.

My cleaning tasks for Monday and Tuesday. On Monday I dust then polish our furniture, vacuum and steam clean the floors, and vacuum our basement (this is where we do circle time and a lot of play time since our play area is downstairs), Tuesday is our trash day so this is more of a reminder for my hubby to take out the trash and recyclables (wink wink) I do laundry on Tuesday's and also a thorough kitchen cleaning which includes cleaning out my fridge wiping down appliances and cabinets, and also clean the microwave.

My husband has Tuesday's and Wednesday's off so Wednesday is my day off from cleaning to enjoy our family time. Thursday is when I do laundry.

Friday's are my bathroom cleaning days and I do my floors again (vacuum and steam clean) Saturday I do more laundry and clean my windows. Sunday is my day to do outside work. Any yard work that I can do without my hubby's help and I also clean out our cars. (If you have kids then cleaning out cars on a weekly basis is a must! I'm sure you understand!)

And there you have it my basic cleaning schedule. I follow this pretty religiously unless of course there is a need for the floors to be vacuumed on a day I wouldn't normally vacuum or something like that  for example. Creating a cleaning schedule and breaking my tasks up throughout the week keeps me focused on what needs to get done and helps designate a time to do it. What is your cleaning schedule like and what helps keep you on task?

The "Fisher-Price Imaginext Batcave Playset" review

Christmas is just around the corner and I'm sure if you are anything like me you are trying to rack your brains for that "perfect gift" for someone special. If I can make this decision any easier for you I will try : ) As you may or may not know I have a four year old and last year for Christmas he received a gift that he still plays with on a daily basis! It's the Fisher Price Imaginext Batcave Playset. The Batcave is basically a dollhouse for boys. It has provided my son with HOURS of good imaginative play. There are a ton of accessories you can buy separately which makes great birthday gifts or additional Christmas gifts from relatives. When my son has his friends over to play they love playing together with the Batcave! It has five stars as far as I'm concerned. We've had it for almost a year and it is Dylan's most used toy and nothing has been broken or worn. I highly recommend this toy for your preschooler!

Here's the front view (the vehicles are sold separately)

Here is a view of the back.

There are a TON of accessories you can buy for the batcave. Here is a look at a few different characters. Most of the characters come with accessories also such as, motorcycles, cars, boomerangs, etc. 

We have a large plastic bag filled with accessories.

A few accesories to unite an open space.

So as I've mentioned before our home is an open concept layout. As you walk through our door you can see into our kitchen, dining room, living room and laundry room. With kids and for entertaining I love having an open concept home. However, I sometimes get discouraged when it comes to decorating. I like everything to flow nicely, even my decor. Here are a few tips on how I decorate to ensure each room is defined but yet blends together nicely. We chose to use neutral colors for the base of our home. For example, the walls, furniture and curtains are all neutral colors. We add some color with our decorative accents. I have some maroon and green decorations throughout our home for a pop of color. I recently hemmed my curtains in our living room because they were covering our baseboard. I used the extra material to create decor around my home to unite the rooms.

Here are the curtains I hemmed. I love the pattern on them and wanted to incorporate it into the other rooms in our home.

I used a large piece of fabric to place on top of our shelving unit in the living room.

I framed a piece for our laundry room.

I used a small piece and draped it over a basket in our laundry room.

I framed another piece for our dining room.

Here is a view into our home from the door as you walk in. As you can see having a few similar accents ties the space together nicely.

Here is a view of our laundry room from the door. More of the accents are visual creating a unified space.

I love decorating and had a lot of fun creating some decorative accents out of extra fabric! What are some decorating tips you have?

A great way to organize toddler's books.

My kids love books! We read to our little ones every night before bed and often throughout the day too. This being said it's obvious we have A LOT of books! Storing books for little ones can be difficult because they want to be able to get to the ones they want to read and they do this by looking at the covers of the books if they can't yet read. This is why bookcases don't work so well for toddlers and preschoolers. If they can't see the cover of the books then they end up pulling out all the books off the bookcase and it is hard for them to put them away after. I started putting books in bins and it seems to work wonderfully! They can easily see which books they want to read and once they are done can easily put the books back. Of course we do still have bookcases so what we do is rotate the kids books from the bookcases to the bins. This allows our kids to discover "new" books (they aren't brand new but new as in different) and keeps them interested in reading.

I keep a few bins in their room and also some in our living area. I was surprised at how many books fit into the bins and how nicely they fit.

This method of storing books has been working for not only our four year old but for our one year old also! How do you organize your kid's books and keep them interested in reading?

A thankful craft...

It's no secret I love crafting with my minis! It is a wonderful time for them to express themselves and share some quality time with their mama! I wanted to teach my four year old the meaning of being thankful so I explained that being thankful for something meant being so happy you have that something in your life. I then asked him what he was thankful for and had him write it down on some leaves that we made.

Dylan glued the leaves down then we made some acorns that he also glued down.

This was not only a fun craft but also meaningful. It taught Dylan what it meant to be thankful for something and gave him the opportunity to reflect on what he is thankful for. Not to mention it warmed my heart hearing what he is thankful for! Love love love these precious moments with my kiddos! We hung his artwork on his bedroom door as a daily reminder to be thankful for all the things he loves : )